Tuesday Fever: All The Good Things

Time flies so fast it's already November, Happy Halloween Pips, thought I don't celebrate it then in just a short nick of 4 weeks it's the Yuletide Season. Holiday everyone's favorite except me who works on a cruise ship. Have to work until I finish my contract, but that's okay I guess. 2016 ends just like that. Anyways, there's a lot of things to share, discuss and so on. In case you guys wondering what happened to my 2 previous blogs I just reverted back into draft to edit them. I want to put more information regarding a certain event that happened this year. For now I'll share something good as this Holiday Season come forth. There are few I want to make sure that my 2016 will end a good one, it started not quite good. We can always change the course of our future. I wanted to start my 2017 with a blast and fresh, new year's resolution. I'm excited for all the adventures waiting for me next year.

Why All the good things? Positivity is the key to make things different. One can change another perception from bad to good or any other thing else. It can be a question or a statement about how you see life, yourself, people, things, event and so on. For all the good things we can have and achieve it is always reside inside our very own self. I wasn't sure how it will work to people, but we can always say this line and think what make things good. It wasn't easy for me to look at everything in a positive way especially when you're in a brink of emotional breakdown. But eventually it will end before you know it. All of us was taught about the good things in everything I guess that is also why we can easily change every thing, we immediately think the goods and benefit if we see it in a different way. Our coping mechanism is way beyond what we could possibly do. It's the same thing as what I did. I just tried to see things differently in my own perspective and way so I can deal the situation good. I cried hard enough, I felt alone almost everyday and every time I remember something my heart feels like it's going to explode. It is not easy to go through such heart ache, but we all come to this point in our once in a lifetime life, we all have to experience at least thousands of painful experiences, heart breaks, brokenness, sufferings and misery and I tell you it's okay to feel all this. We're human and vulnerable to every emotions our brain send to our small beating heart. So take my advice and just get over with it. It took me almost 3 months and I'm way pass the 3months rule we usually called. I'm still dealing with it everyday and there are times that when things are quiet and I'm alone my brain started to show vivid memories of the good times I had and I want that to happen again, but no it cannot be. So I revert myself, my thinking and my feelings to another events, so I won't be all over my bed crying my eyes out again.

So now I'm all good and I'm feeling great. And I think there's a lot of good things going to happen it is something that we can always hope for.

xoxo,
Ivy