An Open Letter To All Women Out There

This is for every woman, lady or girl who thinks less of themselves and other negative you think to yourselves and get from other people. No! Please I want you to look at yourself in a different, good way and say to yourself that you're special, you're beautiful regardless of what size or look you are, it doesn't matter where you were born or grow up, or nationality. You're uniqueness is unmeasurable. You think you're a failure? If you feel that everything fails, I'm sure women's strength to strive for success is way beyond you can imagine, so tell to yourself success will come up when when you work on it.  You think you're not loved? You are loved, who ever say you're not well screw them God created women wonderfully and He loved us. You thing you are always left behind? And when you feel that you are left behind, you got your family and friends  with you, I tell you there's more a lot of things we can do if we try to look at ourselves in a different way. You think you need to lose weight, or get more skinnier, or whatever? Because the modern world conceptualize women that the lesser is much better. It is not a problem if you to be want sexy or skinnier. I know it feels good when people appreciate you, but listen let not only be physical. Because a lot of people are bad and say something to you then make it as your steps to become a better you and show it off to them, but not because it's a norm and main stream.

Women have a lot of potential, us that power to face the enemy with courage. Never let anyone say different about you and define by others' definition of  you, we are our own unique person and we're the only ones who can define ourselves in our own perspective as a woman.Yes, we get hurt, but never bottled it up. Yes we are weak and can be easily break, weaknesses is a sign that we are human, vulnerable, we can always make it up for ourselves. We have to learn from our own mistake and grow up from it. That's where we find our true strength and overcome our own monster.

I want to share you from the famous artist Ms. Swift. I might not a fan of Taylor Swift, but I want to share her words from one of her concert here in my blog because she actually hit the point and a lot of people got inspired by it. So let me quote on what she said,

"When you start to compare yourself to other people, please change the channel in your mind to something else, Because I think that when it comes to how we see ourselves, other people are really mean, but we are really mean to ourselves. It's easy to get confused. We all feel like that sometimes."
"If there's one thing I want you to remember from tonight, remember what I'm about to say. You need to look into the mirror in the morning and not tell yourself that you're not special, or that you're not good enough, or that you're not pretty, or you're not awesome,"
"Let me tell you what you are not. You are not the opinion of someone that doesn't know you," she proudly exclaims to thousands of fans.
"You are not damaged goods just because you have made mistakes in your life. Now let me tell you what you are. You are your own definition of beautiful and worthwhile. You are someone who is wiser because you've made mistakes; not damaged, wiser. I want you to know that the way I see mistakes, they don't make you damaged, they make you clean,"  ~Taylor Swift

Is it inspiring? Yes. The world change almost everyday even in a second and all of us goes with it, but
this is not a perfect world, do not be conformed by it. But let it be your stepping stone to become a better version of yourself, a better woman and not be someone else that someday you will regret. I always tell myself every day that I am better than I was yesterday and I don't care what other people say even they are entitled with their opinion, you are entitled to your own opinion of yourself as a woman. Okay? So shout to all women out there. I want you to realize just how powerful you really are, and to stop spending so much time trying to become beautiful. You already are beautiful, and the power you possess will reveal itself over your lifetime. It’s enough to know that you have power, and that it will continue to grow and expand as you allow it. The good news is that realizing you’re beautiful just as you are right now is the first step to harnessing the power within you and accomplishing more in life as a lady or in general a women.

Before I go another quote from movie Cinderalla, "Be kind and have courage."

xoxo,
Ivy