Wednesday Fever: Becoming a Wife




I made a Marriage 101 on my facebook a few days ago. This is me sharing my relationship experiences with my husband. The learnings and all of that. Today I want to share a little bit of my perception becoming a wife.
The drastic changes that I went through is something I wanted to share as a reference. I know it will be different to anybody. So, I moved to the US last March 2017 basically, that's the start of becoming an independent, responsible girlfriend Ivy and I tell you that's a gigantic leap for me. Husband and I got married August of 2017 just change of title and promotion from being a girlfriend to being a wife.
Filipino culture is different, we can stay with our parents as long as we want. It's economically good we share contribution of course and we pretty much don't have a problem with food and shelter. Mama and Papa have our back!


I'm pretty much prepared, my mom taught me a lot of things and one those are there are no days-off on being a wife or a mother (someday). I admit I gave both my parents a massive headache because I barely clean my room and most of the times I'm super lazy. Anyways, I have very good mentors out of my parents. I realize I have to get my sh*t together! ADULTING is mandatory, I admit I miss the days where I don't have responsibilities, but we all grow up. Now I'm a wife that change is automatic, I embrace it. I didn't feel it at first but as the day goes by I become pickier, OC, I have to think everything in advance, foods, house this and that and at the same time taking care of my husband (Watson as well). I want everything to be accordingly!
Now I know because I'm experiencing what my mother used to tell me.

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